There are at least 20 dangers of having promiscuous sex between men and women.
Believe it or not, if you observe your surroundings carefully, you will find 20 dangers of promiscuous sex between men and women. Please do not use individual cases to argue. I hope that friends who read this article will take good care of themselves and their spouses in the future:
1. High divorce rate
The divorce rate after non-virgin marriage is very high.
2. Easy to cheat
Easy to indulge and not cherish oneself, serious cases of sexual orientation abnormality, homosexuality. (How to save: Even if you are not a virgin, you must know how to love yourself. Only those who love themselves will be loved. As the saying goes: “If you bloom, butterflies will come.”)
3. Various diseases
As the saying goes, the more romantic you are, the more decadent you will be. The harm of indulgence and multiple sexual relations makes it easy to get various sexually transmitted diseases. When you kiss someone, there is a kind of bacteria in your saliva. Kissing multiple people will cause serious confusion of bacteria in your body, causing oral and gastrointestinal infections, stomach problems, liver diseases, heart diseases, bone diseases, lung diseases, diseases of various organs of the body, cancer, etc., which will accompany you with lifelong pain.
4. Impact on fertility
Indulgence and excessive sexual life will affect fertility.
5. Life safety
Psychological trauma, emotional trauma, mental injury, financial entanglement, etc. If you read the news, you will know that the serious consequences of breaking up may also threaten life.
6. Degeneration in life
Losing ambition and indulging in lust, lack of body, mind and energy will lead to degeneration and make it impossible to create a better future. It is easy to sacrifice one’s chastity, resulting in chaotic sexual relationships. In bars, nightclubs, and social software, one likes to have sex with others, even become a sex worker, sells his body, takes drugs, etc., until life is full of disasters.
7. Marriage quality
Marriage is sacred and serious. Premarital sex will inevitably endanger the stability of marriage.
8. Sexually transmitted diseases
As the saying goes, if you walk by the river, you will get your feet wet. It is very easy to be infected with various sexually transmitted diseases such as AIDS, syphilis, genital warts, gonorrhea, etc.
9. Destroy love
Who doesn’t want their partner to belong to them alone? Although they don’t mind on the surface, who wants their partner to be hurt by others? So put yourself in their shoes. If you are not married, you must stick to the bottom line for the happiness of both you and your spouse in the future.
10. Impact on offspring
① Excessive indulgence has an impact on the health of the fetus. ② Parents’ open-mindedness will also affect offspring. ③ If parents divorce, the child will have to live in an unhealthy family, which will affect the child in all aspects. There are too many reasons.
11. Loss of money
Money and sex are related. A large amount of money will be wast on lust, and it will also lead to pornography, gambling, and drugs, including losing opportunities due to excessive indulgence. Excessive indulgence will cause physical problems and inability to work, and health care will also cost money, and you have to bear the consequences yourself.
12. Changes in appearance
Excessive indulgence in sex and physical weakness can lead to: dull eyes, sunken cheeks, strong anger, white spots in the eyes, acne, severe hair loss, bad breath, dark skin, toxins all over the back, ugly appearance, etc. Girls may also have freckles.
13. Concealing feelings
It is easy to conceal and deceive feelings after marriage. Generally, those who deceive themselves will eventually deceive themselves.
14. Inferiority complex
Being humble in society and in relationships, easily ignored by others, and not daring to speak out when you are having troubles.
15. Miscarriage
It is extremely harmful to the body and will basically lead to unhappiness in marriage. Too many miscarriages may even lead to the inability to have children in a lifetime, and may even lead to mental illness. Please search Baidu: the harm and retribution of abortion.
16. Career impact
Sexual immorality is extremely harmful. Since ancient times, many people have lost their kingdoms (careers) because of sex. Of course, when you lose your kingdom, you will also lose your beauty, and in the end, everything is in vain.
17. Loss of dignity
Only those who know how to respect and cherish themselves will be respect and loved by others. If you do things that hurt others and your own life, how can people love you? The universe is a mirror. Those who love others will always be love by others.
18. Psychological distortion
Due to promiscuous sexual relations in the past, which leads to unhappiness in marriage, men are prone to become violent and women are prone to become shrews, with bad tempers, complaining about others, and always thinking that it is someone else’s problem. Moreover, they are prone to spleen and stomach diseases due to their resentful mentality.
Finally, I would like to advise everyone: there are too many real examples that make us look back and understand that we should never have indiscriminate sex, otherwise we will regret it for the rest of our lives. I hope everyone can cultivate their character, because cultivating one’s character can bring harmony to the family, and harmony in the family can bring prosperity to everything.
Only when the blessings and karma are equal can they become a couple (to seek a good marriage, you must first improve your blessings and change yourself); those who can become a couple are those whose blessings and karma are equal. If the blessings and karma of the wife and husband are very different, it is difficult for them to be a match.
It can be see that in traditional society, women are proud of their husbands. Whether a woman can marry a rich husband or a poor husband is entirely determine by her past life karma, not by chance. So many men want to find a beautiful woman, and women want to find a rich husband. Where do you start? Don’t go out to pursue. If you cultivate your own blessings, you will naturally attract someone with “equal blessings and karma” to be your “husband and wife.”
Some girls said that they should have a good time when they were young, and then find a good man to marry after they had enough fun. In fact, the blessings in marriage are also limited. When you have had enough fun, the blessings in this aspect have been consume by you, so you can only find scumbag men. Even if you find a good man, he will treat you well at first, but later because of your various behaviors mentioned above, you will hurt the man who treats you well, and ultimately get nothing.
There is no good luck in the rest of the marriage. There is a saying in the underworld, sooner or later you will pay for what you have done. Of course, there are also people who can cite a few counterexamples, but they have very great blessings in that aspect, and they can afford to waste it. Do you feel that your blessings are also great enough to be squander at will?
A woman’s attitude and choice towards marriage will determine her second half of life. All her indulgences will be reflect back at her. If you don’t believe me, just observe that after ten or twenty years, girls with similar qualifications will have very different lives. You may say that this is fate at work, but it is better to say that it is the law of cause and effect at work.
People with great blessings in marriage are naturally love by others. People with too little blessings often meet bad people. Good people are hard to find, but people who are not good to you are entangle. Even if you are lucky enough to find a good person, he or she will not be good to you. From the perspective of the present world, there are reasons such as personality, concepts, and ways of dealing with people, but in the final analysis, it is determine by blessings.
I have seen many people who, after seriously reducing their blessings, can’t help but break up their good families. This kind of marriage blessing is related to what is bring by the previous life, and is closely related to the behavior in the present life. In addition to being unfilial and losing blessings, indulgence in evil yin and abortion can be say to be the most obvious factor.
Nowadays, the divorce rate and crimes caused by emotions are increasing day by day. A big part of the reason is that one-night stands, extramarital sex, extramarital affairs, and extramarital affairs are rampant in the indulgence of evil desires! No matter how secretive the extramarital affair is, it will inevitably cause various problems to the marriage. The two people will naturally be “close in form but far apart in heart”, giving rise to various contradictions. It is better for those with more blessings in marriage. For those with less blessings in this aspect, it is easy to completely ruin the marriage. Many families are broken up, and it is too late to regret it! The seemingly tempting extramarital peach blossom luck is actually peach blossom disaster and peach blossom brake; smart people will stay away from it, and only foolish and greedy people will get into trouble!
Extramarital affairs, one-night stands, and beautiful appearances all have the power of the devil that can lead you to destruction. Once the pleasure of extramarital affairs forms a conditioned reflex in the brain, it will make people addicted, lose reason and judgment, just like being possessed, unable to extricate themselves, and eventually sink into the abyss of depravity. One tenth of happiness in exchange for nine tenths or more of pain, the gain does not outweigh the loss! People who are trapped often cannot control their emotions rationally, and have relationships with others casually. This is definitely due to the blessing of external demons, and the power of bad karma is incredible. There are too many people who have cause trouble and their families have been broken up because of having casual relationships…
Cheating, cheating, extramarital affairs, one-night stands are a very serious game of playing with fire, and you must never play them. It is like a casino, there is no eternal “winner”. Rape is close to death, in the love field, those who play with fire will get burn; but unfortunately this sentence is often regarded as “wind in the ears”. All those who cheat will not give up until something happens, and all those who are “successful” in love will “not turn back until they hit the south wall”.
They will all regret and sigh after the fact: it’s too late to regret! Such things happen every day, and occasionally around us, but everyone always holds the mentality of “moths to the flame” and “can’t stop” with a fluke mentality! Think about your family, parents, children, and career. How can there be so many romantic and exciting things in life to make you toss! ! !
A peaceful life is real!
The ancients said: “A person with a pure heart is a noble person.” A noble person means that he has a high social status and is respect by others. A person with a pure heart will never have bad things like promiscuous relationships, extramarital affairs, homosexuality, or sexual indulgence. Therefore, he will have a loving and harmonious marriage, a happy family, a successful career, and prosperous descendants.
Ancient books say: dull eyes, bruises under the eyes, dark circles under the eyes: Chinese medicine believes that “the liver opens up the eyes”, the liver and kidney are of the same origin, if the kidney qi is insufficient, the kidney water cannot nourish the liver wood, the eyes will be dull, and the eye circles will be dark. People with sufficient kidney qi have clear and bright eyes, and they are full of spirit. Generally, people who often think about some messy sexual affairs between men and women and indulge in excessive sexual activities often have turbid eyes, and their eyes are free and have no concentration like drunken people. This is called “peach blossom eyes” in physiognomy books, which means lust, lowly life, and bad fate. If you have it, change it, if not, try your best!
We can see in life that people who are upright and righteous have a pure heart and sufficient kidney water. They have stronger memory and thinking ability, can easily achieve results in work and study, and have a relatively honorable social status. This is what the ancients called “Quaker”.
On the contrary, people with dark minds, who indulge in evil desires and often ejaculate, will have decreased memory and thinking abilities, be forgetful when doing things, and fail to consider things comprehensively. Over time, their bodies will deteriorate, and their appearance will become vulgar and dark, which makes people feel disgusted when they see them. It is difficult for them to make achievements in work and study, and they have a relatively low social status. This is what the ancients called “lowly character”, which refers to a lowly and humble status.
Ejaculation will lead to a large loss of energy and a lack of vitality, and all human activities are driven by energy; people with sufficient yang energy are energetic and have strong motivation, and they are able to keep their promises and act decisively, and achieve success; Buddhism talks about karma, and the other party’s karma is all poured onto you, causing your yang energy to become weaker and weaker, and you become timid, timid, and have no luck and lack of motivation, and ultimately achieve nothing, and even get into debt. The ancients said: “If you have a spirit, you have a career”, which is the truth.
Traditional Chinese medicine believes that essence is the basis of human health and the source of blood production stored in the kidneys, which are connected to the bone marrow and brain marrow. Excessive consumption of essence will lead to hollow bone marrow, insufficient brain marrow, premature aging and premature death. The human body is nourished by blood and qi, and the source of blood and qi is food. The unused blood and qi will be converted into essence during the deep sleep of the human body, stored in the kidneys and sealed in the bones for emergency use.
Excessive consumption of essence can lead to various symptoms, which may manifest differently in different people, but generally speaking, the most common ones are as follows: weakness in waist and knees, joint pain, tinnitus, frequent urination, decreased strength, lack of endurance, fear of cold, dizziness, drowsiness, easy nosebleeds, chronic rhinitis, hunger, etc. These are also the symptoms of kidney deficiency. There are more mental symptoms, such as insomnia, lack of concentration, memory loss, obsessive-compulsive disorder, lack of determination, irritability, suicide, etc. Among all these symptoms, the most obvious and fatal are two: decreased intelligence and decreased determination.
Those who seek fame will lose their fame because of lust; those who seek profit will lose their profit because of lust; those who stay at home will lose their family business because of lust (and those who are officials will lose their official career because of lust. Even if you have the talent of Li Bai or the wealth of Shi Chong, if you do not constantly eliminate evil, it will inevitably affect your prosperity and decline, and the ending will always be very miserable.
“In the vast sea of karma, nothing is harder to break than lust.” Modern people are greedy for money and sex. It is hard to break! It is hard to break! Lust is the root of all evil and the root of all bondage.
The more you indulge in lust when you are young, the more miserable you will be when you are old.
If modern people cannot abstain from sex, they should at least practice moderation.
To love people, it is like holding a torch and walking against the wind; you are bound to burn your hands.
Yin is the root of all evil. The yin in “Yin is the root of all evil” usually refers to evil yin, which refers to “all improper sexual behaviors”. Lust, indulgence, and evil yin are like opening Pandora’s box, and all kinds of sins will follow. Such examples happen every day, but they happen every day like covering one’s ears and stealing the bell, or moths flying into the fire! When it happens to you, it is too late to regret!
If you are greedy for sex, your life will be worthless, both men and women. If you really want to have a good life and change your destiny, then read the relevant articles and cases carefully, and observe your own experience and the experience of the people around you; don’t argue randomly and make all kinds of excuses for yourself!